Rosebud 6:36 Thu Oct 16
Anyone else got a secret life?
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I’m married, got a family and friends, but I’ve always led a secret life. I’ve got numerous email accounts, a separate current account with a few thousand quid in and I just do stuff as I fancy. Nothing wild nowadays - yesterday afternoon I just went to see a film when everyone else thought I was at work (including my work colleagues they thought I was in another office) that includes the wife – but just stuff to keep me ticking over and keep my interest. A couple of weeks back, I had a couple of days off and never told anyone, wife was away and thought I was at work but I just spent the day at home. In the past (not now) I’ve been a ‘swinger’ met couples, single women but until this post I’ve never told a soul. I often have a meal / drink somewhere nice, belong to clubs I sometimes pop into but I never tell anyone.
One of the only people who knows what I do is a good female friend who I worked with 20 years ago and keep in email contact with. We meet about once a year for coffee and a chat but that’s it.
I’ve been doing this for so long I don’t even think about it anymore but I was wondering the other day if anyone else does anything similar.
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frank marker
11:20 Tue Oct 21
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Damn, too slow.
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ludo21
10:21 Tue Oct 21
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How did you know?
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SecondOpinion
9:46 Tue Oct 21
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Everyone has a secret in their lives.
For example, the next person to post is a closet homosexual.
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NewtonsPartyBag
9:26 Tue Oct 21
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Not quite aimed at you mate!
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yngwies Cat
9:13 Tue Oct 21
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Sorry, it was only 2 pints.
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NewtonsPartyBag
9:09 Tue Oct 21
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There are some really sad fucks on here.
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yngwies Cat
8:26 Tue Oct 21
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Er, trains are late honey, as I get another cheeky pint at waterloo
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Worst Case Ontario
8:23 Tue Oct 21
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I sign guestbooks as Dario Leclerc.
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Sxboy_66
7:04 Tue Oct 21
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I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you. All of you.
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Whitester.
7:01 Tue Oct 21
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I am a beetle. Snip snip snip
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Eerie Descent
6:58 Tue Oct 21
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Polite has a secret life as BubbleBrainBrian.
Don't tell anyone though...
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Nurse Ratched
6:56 Tue Oct 21
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"Since I have been living on my own I sniff M-Kat all night and wheel around the Estate and Tower blocks listening for people having sex."
You're welcome.
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gph
6:56 Tue Oct 21
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If I had even one life, let alone a secret one as well, I wouldn't be on here...
;-)
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Johnson
6:52 Tue Oct 21
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ag ag ag ag
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bubblebrainbrian
3:55 Tue Oct 21
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Since I have been living on my own I sniff M-Kat all night and wheel around the Estate and Tower blocks listening for people having sex.
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Steve the Hammer
3:32 Tue Oct 21
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Chim chim cha boo MUST have something cool to say on this thread!
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ludo21
3:17 Tue Oct 21
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I live out in the sticks but have a meeting up in town once or twice a month.... really I should arrange 2/3 meetings for the same day (or go back to my office) but I don't... I just have my meeting and then spend the rest of the day wandering around, nothing exciting but just doing the things that I wouldn't ever get 'round to i.e. going round art galleries or Apsley House (Duke of Wellington's House) etc...
Nothing 'secret' but I don't tell anyone what I'm doing.
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Rosebud
2:59 Tue Oct 21
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Oh and no deanfergi 11:00 Sun Oct 19 I'm not gay either
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Rosebud
11:20 Mon Oct 20
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I shouldn't have said the thing about 'appalling' as it's detracted from what the thread was supposed to be about, which is doing things without telling anybody at all. It was really the normalcy of the thing last week that made me wonder if anybody else did it. There was a 5pm start to the film I went to see at the local Art-house theatre last week and I could just as easily gone to that and just told the wife. It would also have been less of a risk of someone finding I wasn't in either office and being pulled hauled in - but that option not only didn't interest me but it's got to the point now where it's not even an option.
If we start going down by I define as wrong or right or appalling, this thread isn't going to be about what it was supposed to be. It isn't about having affairs or visiting prostitutes (here's an interesting thing: done the former - but a long time ago - but would never do the latter. So, wrong there Nursey! Why pay? Never ever understood it) and it's not even about having excitement or getting a thrill other than by the vague satisfaction - if that what it is - of just doing things that no-one knows about.
Interesting that there are a few people here who understand anyway. I might start another thread for defining 'appalling'.
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deanfergi
11:00 Sun Oct 19
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http://youtu.be/3iz7ByABy04
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HairySpotter
9:35 Sat Oct 18
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haha
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